Debra Fileta is an author and licensed counselor, who I was honored to work with as a co-author of Married Sex: A Christian Couple's Guide to Reimagining Your Love Life. She did such a brilliant job …
Adventurous Isn’t a Fair Word When the Wife is More Vulnerable
It’s not uncommon for me to hear guys say, “I wish my wife would be more adventurous in the bedroom.” The way this is phrased, it makes the wife seem timid—a character weakness—rather than making the …
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Our Weird Relationship with Sex and Nudity
In our upcoming book Married Sex: A Christian Couples’ Guide to Reimagining Your Love Life (October 2021 release date), Debra Fileta (https://truelovedates.com/) and I make it clear that porn is …
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Singles: How to Find a Master Level Love
Henry was 98 and his wife Martha was 96 when they shared the same room in a nursing home. They had been married for more than sixty years when Dr. Earl Henslin met them. Dr. Henslin worked the three …
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A Simple Exercise to Crank Things Up in the Bedroom
In her book Mating in Captivity, Esther Perel, a therapist, describes a simple tool to help couples understand each other better. We can live with each other and be married to each other for years and …
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What I’m Writing Next: A Book on Sex
“Gary,” my friend asked me and a number of other writers/speakers/pastors involved in national marriage ministry. “What’s the one book you’d recommend for Christian couples about sex?” This man has …
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