We were thrilled to hear that Gary and Debra Fileta's two-day interview on Focus on the Family was chosen as one of their “Best of 2022.” The first interview is on "Designed for Mutual Pleasure" and …
One Hour a Month to Make an Investment in Your Marriage
Now that we’re empty nesters, Lisa and I watch a little more television in the evenings than we used to. We like to go through series. Some of our favorites have been Friday Night …
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Dismantling the 5 Major Roadblocks in the Bedroom
In our book Married Sex: A Christian Couple’s Guide to Reimagining Your Love Life, Debra Fileta and I address five major roadblocks that are preventing couples from having a thriving love life in the …
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The Three Markers of Healthy Marital Sexuality
As Debra Fileta and I have been doing podcasts on Married Sex: A Christian Couple’s Guide to Reimagining Your Love Life, one of the most common questions we get is “what is healthy sexuality?” Here …
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Some of My Favorite Reads from 2021
I’m surprised how long this list is. I’ve sifted out many good reads from 2021 and thought I’d highlight just the best—but that still left 22 books! I’m not endorsing every word of every book that …
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Her Pleasure First
A healthy sex life is marked by the important theme of mutuality and reciprocity. One of the things Debra Fileta and I set out to do in Married Sex: A Christian Couple’s Guide to Reimagining Your Love …