A healthy sex life is marked by the important theme of mutuality and reciprocity. One of the things Debra Fileta and I set out to do in Married Sex: A Christian Couple’s Guide to Reimagining Your Love …
Your Spouse is a Marvelous Mystery
“Aaron’s” business was all but obliterated by the Covid-19 shutdowns. He and his wife have lived a fairly comfortable life, financially speaking, but by December of 2020 they were fighting bankruptcy. …
The Beauty of Married Sex
I’m so excited that Married Sex: A Christian Couple’s Guide to Reimagining Your Love Life is now available everywhere. God’s presence was so apparent as Debra Fileta and I prayerfully labored to …
Why We Need to Talk More About Sex
Debra Fileta is an author and licensed counselor, who I was honored to work with as a co-author of Married Sex: A Christian Couple's Guide to Reimagining Your Love Life. She did such a brilliant job …
Adventurous Isn’t a Fair Word When the Wife is More Vulnerable
It’s not uncommon for me to hear guys say, “I wish my wife would be more adventurous in the bedroom.” The way this is phrased, it makes the wife seem timid—a character weakness—rather than making the …
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Married Sex Should Not be an Oxymoron
“Jocelyn” and “Danny” come off as unusually integrated, connected, and intimate. They have the feel about them of knowing each other deeply, without facade, and delighting in who each other …
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