For this week's paid subscribers, I'm sharing an entire (and long) chapter that had to be omitted from Making Your Marriage a Fortress. Editors weren't concerned about the quality, but it …
Emotional Attachment after Betrayal
The head of a counseling center texted me to say that while he was enjoying the entire book, he would be recommending Making Your Marriage a Fortress to clients and fellow counselors for the sake of …
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By Degrees
To make your marriage a fortress against this common challenge of busyness, it’s crucial to remember that relational estrangement happens slowly, by degrees. Shortly before I turned fifty, I moved to …
Sunday Night Check-Ins
In spite of putting in place strong boundaries and being married with renewed understanding, Debra and John still struggled somewhat after bringing home baby number two. Even if you know what to do, …
So Many Hurting Couples
When you speak at camps you get time at meals and after sessions to get to know couples beyond a quick handshake, and I almost always come away humbled and awed by the challenges so many couples face. …
The Story of Forgiveness
An incredible story of God's power to help us forgive, heal and be reconciled! As a massage therapist, Sharon literally found her hands around the neck of the woman who had had an affair with …