What if one of the primary reasons you got married will now never come true? What if the entire way you and your spouse look at your identity in marriage and your goals for your marriage get put …
Emotional Attachment after Betrayal
The head of a counseling center texted me to say that while he was enjoying the entire book, he would be recommending Making Your Marriage a Fortress to clients and fellow counselors for the sake of …
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Why Cross Fit Might Be More Dangerous for Your Marriage than Facebook
Fifteen years ago, there was a lot of debate about “friending” old boyfriends and girlfriends on Facebook. I heard many tales (I don’t know how many were verified) of old boyfriends and girlfriends …
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Always Love, Never Be Harsh
As part of Cherry Hills' series on relationships, I preached on marriage, using Colossians 3:19. With 11 brilliant words, Paul tells husbands one thing always to do, and one thing never to do, to …
Call Your Daughters Vashti: A Biblical Case for Saying No to Your Spouse
Vashti saying “no” to her husband is one of the more spectacular displays of strength in all of Scripture. Doing so certainly reduced her comfort and life circumstances for a few decades but it also …
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Some of My Favorite Reads from 2021
I’m surprised how long this list is. I’ve sifted out many good reads from 2021 and thought I’d highlight just the best—but that still left 22 books! I’m not endorsing every word of every book that …
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