I’m so excited that Married Sex: A Christian Couple’s Guide to Reimagining Your Love Life is now available everywhere. God’s presence was so apparent as Debra Fileta and I prayerfully labored to …
Singles: Back Up Slowly
I drive more carefully than I used to, not just because I’m worried about safety but because I’m also concerned about the hassle. When you’ve been in an accident or two, or had to take care of …
Adventurous Isn’t a Fair Word When the Wife is More Vulnerable
It’s not uncommon for me to hear guys say, “I wish my wife would be more adventurous in the bedroom.” The way this is phrased, it makes the wife seem timid—a character weakness—rather than making the …
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The Three Statements Every Loved One Wants to Hear
On the night before his father died, Jeff Kemp sat at his dad’s bedside and asked for a blessing. His dad, Jack Kemp, had stood strong in the pocket as an NFL quarterback. He had stood tall as a …
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Plant Love to Find Love
Moving from the Pacific Northwest to Houston, Texas meant learning how to run in humidity. Growing up as a Seattle boy, I knew how to run in all kinds of rain (and had three different raincoats for …
Satan’s Devices to Destroy and Ensnare all Sorts and Ranks of People in the World; Part 5
Two things: First, I realize there’s been a couple weeks hiatus here at the blog. I spoke at Lovesong in Maui two weeks ago, and though I had written blog posts in advance for while I would be …






