I drive more carefully than I used to, not just because I’m worried about safety but because I’m also concerned about the hassle. When you’ve been in an accident or two, or had to take care of …
Why We Need to Talk More About Sex
Debra Fileta is an author and licensed counselor, who I was honored to work with as a co-author of Married Sex: A Christian Couple's Guide to Reimagining Your Love Life. She did such a brilliant job …
You Don’t Want What You Think You Want
Let me talk to the women first, and then the guys. However, I’d like both genders to read both sections so that you can consider the weight of all that I’m suggesting here. Part of finding the right …
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Making a Marriage
The following characteristics are essential to make a marriage. You can’t expect a twenty-two-year-old to possess all of them in their full mature form, but you should see the foundations of these …
The Three Statements Every Loved One Wants to Hear
On the night before his father died, Jeff Kemp sat at his dad’s bedside and asked for a blessing. His dad, Jack Kemp, had stood strong in the pocket as an NFL quarterback. He had stood tall as a …
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Walking Away at Work
One of the things I like best about writing books is hearing how creatively they’ve been applied. As a pastor, writer, and speaker, in many ways I live in a rather small world—and struggle sometimes …






