In spite of putting in place strong boundaries and being married with renewed understanding, Debra and John still struggled somewhat after bringing home baby number two. Even if you know what to do, …
Unlearning the Need to Be in Control: The Great Adventure of Finding Your Place
This is part two of chapter six of my book in progress, The Art of Unlearning. This post won’t make nearly as much sense if you haven’t read part one of this chapter, which you can …
Unlearning the Need to Be in Control: Learning the Way of the Wind
The wonderful thing about life in Christ is that it’s more like driving a taxicab than working a mail route—you never know who you’ll meet or where you’ll go next.[i] Disneyland is the …
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The Story of Forgiveness
An incredible story of God's power to help us forgive, heal and be reconciled! As a massage therapist, Sharon literally found her hands around the neck of the woman who had had an affair with …
More Than a Feeling: What Keeps You Growing Closer Together When Feelings Naturally Fade
We all know infatuated feelings will fade in time, but there is something much more powerful than infatuation that holds a marriage together, and on the flip side, it creates more feeling! It’s not …
Call No Man Father
If there’s one thing the church doesn’t do well, it’s humility. At various times in church history, Christian leadership defined “pomp and circumstance.” The awe-inspiring cathedrals, …






