I got so sad once reading the end of the Gospel of Matthew. Jesus gave so much to His disciples. They owed Him everything, but just when He needed them the most, they let Him down again and again and …
Our Weird Relationship with Sex and Nudity
In our upcoming book Married Sex: A Christian Couples’ Guide to Reimagining Your Love Life (October 2021 release date), Debra Fileta (https://truelovedates.com/) and I make it clear that porn is …
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The Gift Every Relationship Needs
If I could give one gift to married couples, parents, roommates, and fellow Christians, I think it might be…compassion. Let me try to explain why we often lack it, and why it’s so essential to …
Ask Yourself These two Questions Before You Agree to get Married
Determining someone’s character can be a bit tricky if your brain is a little fogged by infatuation, so I’ve come up with a question that helps singles look at their potential mate with a little more …
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Singles: How to Find a Master Level Love
Henry was 98 and his wife Martha was 96 when they shared the same room in a nursing home. They had been married for more than sixty years when Dr. Earl Henslin met them. Dr. Henslin worked the three …
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Avoiding Marital Eruptions
I was shooting baskets in my Pacific Northwest boyhood home in 1980 when a gigantic plume of smoke way off in the distance told me that the world had changed. Mount St. Helens had finally blown its …






