Gary Thomas
Gary Thomas | Closer to Christ, Closer to Others
When Lisa and I stay in a hotel room together, she likes me to lock the metal bar on top. Even if someone could get the door opened, they would be stopped by the metal bar. The extra security device …
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I’m so excited that Married Sex: A Christian Couple’s Guide to Reimagining Your Love Life is now available everywhere. God’s presence was so apparent as Debra Fileta and I prayerfully labored to …
I drive more carefully than I used to, not just because I’m worried about safety but because I’m also concerned about the hassle. When you’ve been in an accident or two, or had to take care of …
Debra Fileta is an author and licensed counselor, who I was honored to work with as a co-author of Married Sex: A Christian Couple's Guide to Reimagining Your Love Life. She did such a brilliant job …
It’s not uncommon for me to hear guys say, “I wish my wife would be more adventurous in the bedroom.” The way this is phrased, it makes the wife seem timid—a character weakness—rather than making the …
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“Jocelyn” and “Danny” come off as unusually integrated, connected, and intimate. They have the feel about them of knowing each other deeply, without facade, and delighting in who each other …
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