What if the way your spouse treats you isn’t about you and him, but about him? What if you’re taking a particular offense about your spouse’s general demeanor that doesn’t reflect on you at …
Using the Five Senses to Enhance Physical Intimacy, Part 2
Last week we shared an excerpt from my book with Debra Fileta, Married Sex: A Christian Couple’s Guide to Reimagining Your Love Life. Valentine’s Day is getting close, and enjoying a “gourmet” …
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Using the Five Senses to Enhance Physical Intimacy, Part 1
Surprise! Valentine’s Day is just a month away. It’s a season where people typically think most often of the physical side of marriage. The best physical intimacy is often thought out and even …
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Why It Can Be Helpful That You See Yourself as a Worse Sinner Than Your Spouse
Note: This post is not for those in an abusive or cruel relationship. You have other dynamics to consider. People who don’t see themselves in desperate need of grace and mercy usually …
Every House Has a Story: This Is Our’s
We've been releasing a lot of "heavy" pieces lately, so for this week's paid post, Lisa and I recorded a much lighter but very personal piece--the story of the house we bought when we moved to …
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Revisiting Enough is Enough: Why the Church Must Stop Enabling Abusive Men
In 2016, I wrote a blog post entitled “Enough is Enough” that went viral, with over 100,000 shares on social media. A pastor known for writing on behalf of supporting Christian marriages, calling out …
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