Debra Fileta and I noticed that it’s often easier for couples to engage in physical intimacy than to talk about it. But talking about it takes that level of intimacy to a much higher level. It can also forestall some frustrations and disappointments. And it’s so helpful to get expectations out there so that they can be discussed. This week’s post is a guide that Debra put together to help married couples learn how to talk about sex. This is “counselor Debra” at her best: informed, practical, and empathetic. Many couples will have a romantic time tonight (Valentine’s Day), but you can grow your marriage by leaps and bounds if, beginning tomorrow, you start talking about what happened the night before.
Read this blog HERE on Substack.