This week we’re taking a short break from running excerpts from my book in progress to look at a frequently ignored but painful issue in the church: abused husbands. I’ve written frequently about …
Loving a Difficult Wife
While I am regularly amazed by how well so many Christian women love their husbands and families, some husbands are married to women who are spiritually immature or addicted. It’s a rock-solid …
Oh How He Loves Us!
Grandparents and picture taking are almost as synonymous as swimming and water. I marvel at my compulsion to show others the latest adorable pictures of our grandchildren. I know most people …
Dismantling the 5 Major Roadblocks in the Bedroom
In our book Married Sex: A Christian Couple’s Guide to Reimagining Your Love Life, Debra Fileta and I address five major roadblocks that are preventing couples from having a thriving love life in the …
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Call Your Daughters Vashti: A Biblical Case for Saying No to Your Spouse
Vashti saying “no” to her husband is one of the more spectacular displays of strength in all of Scripture. Doing so certainly reduced her comfort and life circumstances for a few decades but it also …
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The Three Markers of Healthy Marital Sexuality
As Debra Fileta and I have been doing podcasts on Married Sex: A Christian Couple’s Guide to Reimagining Your Love Life, one of the most common questions we get is “what is healthy sexuality?” Here …
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