From Gary: Megan Raines and her husband thought their marriage was at an end. They even began speaking the “divorce” word. The path they found out of this malaise isn’t all that original, but their …
Does "In Love" Love Really Matter?
“I guess I still love him, in a way; I’m just not in love with him anymore.” How many times have you heard a friend say that about their spouse? Maybe you’ve heard yourself say that. Here’s a radical …
Listen to Wedding Day Doubts
What I’ve long suspected appears to be true: people should pay more, not less, attention to wedding day doubts. It’s so easy to get caught up in a major infatuation, make a hasty commitment, get lost …
Got Mission?
Married couples are often asked: “Are you praying together?” “Are you having sex frequently enough?” “Are you going on date nights?” I don’t have a problem with any of these points of advice; it’s …
A Fierce Force in Marriage
Don’t we all wish we could say the following? “We have such a good marriage. We hardly fight at all, if ever. We’re just so compatible.” And, in fact, if God said to me, “Gary I’m going to give you …
A Good Wife is Better Than a Good Job
Why do so many Christians believe that passionately pursuing a marriage somehow threatens God, undermines his providence, and is tantamount to idolatry? The same women who say, “God will bring the …
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