Debra Fileta is an author and licensed counselor, who I was honored to work with as a co-author of Married Sex: A Christian Couple's Guide to Reimagining Your Love Life. She did such a brilliant job …
A Practical Treatise Upon Christian Perfection
William Law, Part 1 This is seriously one of the most convicting and challenging Christian classics I have ever read. In fact, it may be the most challenging and convicting one ever. It could be …
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Adventurous Isn’t a Fair Word When the Wife is More Vulnerable
It’s not uncommon for me to hear guys say, “I wish my wife would be more adventurous in the bedroom.” The way this is phrased, it makes the wife seem timid—a character weakness—rather than making the …
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Humble Theology
I’m a dirty cup. Whatever truth God pours into me to pour out to others, the sad reality is it gets somewhat tainted because it runs through me. I’m likely to pollute that truth with my own wayward …
Married Sex Should Not be an Oxymoron
“Jocelyn” and “Danny” come off as unusually integrated, connected, and intimate. They have the feel about them of knowing each other deeply, without facade, and delighting in who each other …
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Loving Sin Is Hating Life
If you are a regular reader of this blog, you know I don’t rail against things we should hate as much as I try to proclaim what we are called to love. But sometimes we must address—because Scripture …