A Husband’s Random Thoughts on Fifty Shades of Grey I’m not into creating lists of “do’s” and “don’ts” that aren’t in Scripture. If anything, the Bible is relatively silent about such lists within …
Singles: Your Feelings Don’t Matter Half as Much as This
If you jump in water, you’re going to get wet. If you watch The Bachelor or The Bachelorette, you’re going to hear someone say, “I just need to explore my feelings for him/her…” No, you …
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God Didn’t (and Won’t) Tell You to Marry Your Spouse
“It’s been miserable, Gary,” the woman confessed. “We’ve only been married for three years but it has been the worst three years of my life. My husband has just been awful. And what frustrates me so …
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Dealing With a Potential Mate's Sexual Past
QUESTION: I have been reading your book The Sacred Search and I am almost done with it. I was wondering if you could just clarify something for me. In …
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Singles: What Kind of Sacrifice Are You Choosing?
I saw a depiction of first century (B.C.) Romans carrying their queen’s living quarters. They had built a room with a bed (complete with a roof) and then put poles under it. Thirty or so men would …
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What Singles Need to Look for Most
Singles, married people never argue with me when I quote James 3:2, that we all stumble in many ways. You don’t have to convince anyone who is married that the human heart is evil and has a …






