Plenty of research has come out about porn’s effects on men—erectile dysfunction, making your brain less attracted to your wife, distorting a man’s view of women overall, etc. One I haven’t seen …
Choosing Enthusiasm
Choosing Enthusiasm One of the best gifts you can give your spouse doesn’t cost anything, it’s appropriate for literally every holiday, and you never have to wrap it. I’m talking about …
6 Marks of Healthy Sexuality
What are the marks of a healthy sexual relationship? It’s not inappropriate to ask what is most pleasurable or most exciting for married couples, but meaningful lovemaking is so much more than …
Dealing With a Potential Mate's Sexual Past
QUESTION: I have been reading your book The Sacred Search and I am almost done with it. I was wondering if you could just clarify something for me. In …
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Make Him Want You…
This is going to seem like an explicit post to some, a hurtful post to others, but it could be helpful to many, so I’m going to risk it. It won’t work for every marriage; it may even compound the …


