Too many of us think that anger is like flatulence: it's an uncomfortable feeling that grows bigger and bigger, but if you just let it out, you'll feel so much better. Anger doesn't work that …
Are You Married to a Selfish Spouse?
Victoria (not her real name) is married to a selfish spouse. She prays for him. She encourages him. She seeks ways to serve him. Her husband soaks it up but hasn’t learned to give half as much in …
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Something Jesus Will Never Say
“Faithful” isn’t the most exciting of words. It’s kind of boring. You won’t read of a Nicholas Sparks’ hero telling his girlfriend, “I just want to be faithful to you my entire life.” A movie won’t …
Your Greatest Need In Marriage Isn’t What You Think It Is
One hundred and eighty degrees is how hot I like my chai tea lattes, and it’s also the difference between what I initially thought my greatest need in life is compared to what God thinks it is. Most …
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A Quick Test to Evaluate Your Marriage
Most of us, whether we realize it or not, evaluate our marriages almost every day. If we’re in a social situation, we tend to wonder, “How does our marriage measure up to theirs?” When we’re by …
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The Spiritual Umbrella of Marriage
Rain is going to fall on your marriage; it’s not a matter of if, it’s a matter of when. Which means, you better have a spiritual umbrella nearby. One husband wrote to me, furious that his libido is …