Singles, married people never argue with me when I quote James 3:2, that we all stumble in many ways. You don’t have to convince anyone who is married that the human heart is evil and has a …
Single Men, Save Up for the Wedding Ring Now
A friend of mine started saving for his wife’s wedding ring from the time he was in his mid-teens. He didn’t save much, of course. Sometimes he’d put just five or ten dollars in a jar. That …
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The Ultimate Prenup
One of my best friends (and co-author with me on the Sacred Search Couple’s Conversation Guide), Dr. Steve Wilke, once shocked a church when they asked him about pre-nuptial agreements before …
Singles: Just Because They’re Smiling, That Doesn’t Mean It’s Not an Assault
One of the greatest challenges we face in fighting sin is to accurately call sin, sin. We like to dress it up, pretend it’s something different or at least “neutral.” Or we excuse it, as something …
Why an unequal “yoke” in dating is more like a noose…
One of the most popular quotes from The Sacred Search, a line that has been retweeted many times, is “If I’m going to make myself extremely vulnerable to someone, I want that person to be ruled by the …
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How Would Jesus Date?
Brain research suggests that romantic attachment—infatuation—is more powerful than the sex drive. Neurologically speaking, it’s easier to say no to physical sexual passion than it is to …