Is the current state of your marriage (or divorce) marked by increasing love or escalating malice? Marital malice in all its forms is about the most destructive malice that there is. The Bible uses …
Four Truths to Hold Onto When Family Members Don’t Change
Sometimes those we love most either get in a rut and seem unable to change or they refuse to change. Often we respond by “doubling down” and tirelessly try to change them by our own pleading and …
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10 Essentials for Your Marriage
I saw this list on Dr. James Dobson’s Family Talk website; there wasn’t a button to share it, so I’m just co-opting it for a post (it’s from his book, Love for a Lifetime). When I see a list like this …
Desperate Spouses and Generous Saints
What would you think of a spouse who held something in their hand that their spouse desperately wanted, and that the spouse holding it didn’t even really need, but out of carelessness, malice or …
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The Root of Your Love
The Bible’s depiction of true love is so astonishingly unselfish, we may not even realize how much selfishness we take for granted and are blinded two. Two men—Charles Finney and John Gossip—had a …
Hatred Can Save Your Marriage
A good marriage requires lots of love but it also, surprisingly enough, requires a certain amount of hatred. Your willingness to hate and to give yourself over to a holy hatred will serve your …






