At A Lifelong Love marriage conference, a middle-aged couple got up to share their testimony about reading Married Sex: A Christian Couple’s Guide to Re-Imagining Your Love Life, and what it did for …
The Unoffendable Marriage
What if the way your spouse treats you isn’t about you and him, but about him? What if you’re taking a particular offense about your spouse’s general demeanor that doesn’t reflect on you at …
Using the Five Senses to Enhance Physical Intimacy, Part 2
Last week we shared an excerpt from my book with Debra Fileta, Married Sex: A Christian Couple’s Guide to Reimagining Your Love Life. Valentine’s Day is getting close, and enjoying a “gourmet” …
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God the Creator
This world is spinning out of control in exact proportion to our rejection of God as the Creator. It's vital for us to know God as Creator as it establishes His authority, and for us to see ourselves …
Using the Five Senses to Enhance Physical Intimacy, Part 1
Surprise! Valentine’s Day is just a month away. It’s a season where people typically think most often of the physical side of marriage. The best physical intimacy is often thought out and even …
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Why It Can Be Helpful That You See Yourself as a Worse Sinner Than Your Spouse
Note: This post is not for those in an abusive or cruel relationship. You have other dynamics to consider. People who don’t see themselves in desperate need of grace and mercy usually …






