A.W. Tozer wrote, "What we think about when we think about God is the most important thing about us." If you were given three words to describe God, what would you say? The responses given by others …
Are You a Servant to Your Spouse?
So much of my adult life has been spent trying to connect my faith and my marriage, looking for how being thoughtful and intentional in my marriage correlates to being a thoughtful and intentional …
Nerding Out on Spiritual Formation
Last Fall, we started a monthly Zoom call to discuss John Owen’s book on mortification. While our little group represents participants from three different continents, there are just five or six of us …
Hope for Imperfect Marriages
“You know, your prayers are pretty shallow. Why don’t you pray a real prayer?” The young man was reeling—was she really going to leave him because his prayers weren’t “good enough?” “Why are you …
A Couple’s Guide to Talking About Sex
Debra Fileta and I noticed that it's often easier for couples to engage in physical intimacy than to talk about it. But talking about it takes that level of intimacy to a much higher level. It can …
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Healing Is a Choice
The following is an excerpt from Chapter 5 in Dr. Carol Tanksley's new book Sexpectations: Reframing Your Good and Not-So-Good Stories About God, Love, and Relationships. Drawing from …