What it would be like to have a marriage where sex is experienced as a tremendous blessing instead of a burden? How would it feel to hear Dr. David Schnarch describe the couples he has worked with …
How I Failed as a Pastor
Janell came to visit me after her son (and only child) died because she believed God told her I had something she needed to hear. While she was able to hear that, this wasn't my finest moment as a …
Thanksgiving as a Practice
One of the great spiritual challenges to our joy, happiness and relationships is that our default mode of thinking is 'negative bias'. We take the good for granted; we mull over the frustrating. The …
The Best and Most Popular Posts of 2022
I hope you are enjoying this holiday season, with perhaps some downtime, a few more hours with your loved ones, and some great reflections on the gift of Christ’s coming. This week we’re recounting …
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Making the Most of Married Sex
We were thrilled to hear that Gary and Debra Fileta's two-day interview on Focus on the Family was chosen as one of their “Best of 2022.” The first interview is on "Designed for Mutual Pleasure" and …
Why Gary is Spending Christmas with an Ex-Girlfriend
What does it say about my and Lisa's marriage that I'm planning on spending Christmas day with an ex-girlfriend--and not Lisa? And that Lisa set it up? The entire premise behind Making Your …
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