What I’ve long suspected appears to be true: people should pay more, not less, attention to wedding day doubts. It’s so easy to get caught up in a major infatuation, make a hasty commitment, get lost …
Got Mission?
Married couples are often asked: “Are you praying together?” “Are you having sex frequently enough?” “Are you going on date nights?” I don’t have a problem with any of these points of advice; it’s …
A Fierce Force in Marriage
Don’t we all wish we could say the following? “We have such a good marriage. We hardly fight at all, if ever. We’re just so compatible.” And, in fact, if God said to me, “Gary I’m going to give you …
A Good Wife is Better Than a Good Job
Why do so many Christians believe that passionately pursuing a marriage somehow threatens God, undermines his providence, and is tantamount to idolatry? The same women who say, “God will bring the …
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Join Me on the Journey
The vision: a new online community, dedicated to living out Matthew 6:33 (Seek first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness) in our marriages. Helping singles make wise marital choices. Helping …





