After last week’s interview with “Samson,” I asked Belah Rose, founder of Delight Your Marriage, to listen in and offer a response. What I appreciate so much about Belah’s work (apart from the compelling testimonies of healed marriages) is the way she can challenge both men and women. She empathetically helps men be more sensitive to their wives and understand their wives’ patterns of thinking, while also helping wives be more sensitive to their husbands. Plenty of podcasters take one side or the other; Belah is marked by her compassion and understanding for both. She gets what men like Samson have lived through, and also believes that even in those tough cases, men often need to take the first step (just as, in some cases, spiritually mature women will need to take the first step).
This interview is directed toward men in a difficult marriage–what they can do to get through to their wives while also owning up to their own lack of understanding or past misdeeds. At the end, we talk about how Belah works with men in these situations. If you’re facing a situation like Samson’s, you need more than a blog post or podcast: you need a plan and a team. That’s not something I can offer, but Belah’s team has put together one that has an admirable track record.
Watch this discussion HERE on Substack.
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