I recorded this for Focus on the Family some years ago when my book Loving Him Well first came out (a rewrite of Sacred Influence). I’m not sure I like a title that has the word “needs” in it, but it’s what I was asked to answer, and the intent is to talk about some things other than sex (though the last point does go there) that can particularly bless a husband. While a husband may not “need” these things, most husbands will feel blessed to receive them. I was just at Focus again last week for an entire day of recording (and speaking at their monthly chapel service), and the question put before me this time was what a wife wants from her husband, so I don’t mean to overly focus on husbands here–it’s a natural consequence of being at Focus years ago to talk about a book written for wives.
Watch this interview HERE.


Laughter and joy, are two things that I need. Anyway, thanks for the awesome sharing. These are really important things for men need more than Sex.